Celina Smith: From Victim To Survivor? - OpenSIPS Trunking Solutions

When family an friends are supportive the transition from a victim to a survivor becomes so much easier. been there done that!

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For those who have been battered yet find the courage to pack up and leave their abusers, the road from victim to survivor is not an easy one. Read also: What Top Scientists Say About The EMF-CNF Connection And Your Risk

It can be filled with fear, doubt and sometimes danger.

Although one battle may end when you first walk outif you take your abuser to court, it becomes a struggle of another kind. Read also: Myaci: The Future You Decide – But Are You Making The Right Choice?

Moving from a victim to a survivor mindset can be a difficult and personal journey.

First, it is important to note that it is okay if you are in a place where you feel like a victim.

You experienced something traumautic and how you choose to define yourself is up to you.   Read also: 10 Chilling Facts About Ed Gein's Photos You Won't Believe!

If you are interested in redefining your relationship with your traumatic experience, some steps that may be helpful.

The importance of understanding these responses will help you step out of being a victim, to becoming a survivor.

I have gone through all 4 responses, in very different situations.

Transitioning from victim to survivor to thriver is not an even path.

There will be hiccups, ups and downs, frustrations.

Progress may be slow, difficult and require much determination and persistence.

Look after yourself, go with the flow and hang in there.

Keep the big picture in mind

This term also stresses the fact that the assault was not their fault.

Other individuals who have experienced [a sexual assault] however, embrace the term survivor because it highlights the strength required to survive sexual violence and reach out for help.